so, as you all know, lindsey jo picks the nicknames most of time for any guy i talk to, meet up with, date, etc. as with any girl or guy for that matter, we get our hopes up sometimes. this past weekend a guy started emailing me. we quickly realized we had a lot in common. so, we exchanged numbers and text back and forth for about an hour and a half. even though it was texting, which i am not always a huge fan of, the conversation was flowing. i was really enjoying getting to know him. i ended up ending the converstaion, only because i needed to go to bed. i tried to keep it to myself, but i was excited. so, i told a few friends to pray that i would be able to meet him.
so, long story short, we have text a few times this week, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. don't worry i am not planning the wedding or anything, ha, but he makes mention that he would like to meet up, but has not actually followed through. it is super frustrating. so, if you have not gathered yet, i say what is on my mind. while i want to be pursued and can be pretty old fashion, if i have nothing to lose, i'll say what i want. so, tonight, we were texting back and forth (i even initiated it, which i NEVER do) and i basically just said, "Well, I'm glad we got to chat for a little tonight. While I may have initiated texting you tonight, I'm not going to ask you out, so with that I'll just say, I'd like to meet up and the ball is in your court." His response, "Yes, I'll definitely do it." What in this world? If you are interested in someone, you ask them out. I got the message loud and clear, buddy.
Here's the deal, don't sign up for an online dating website, if you don't have enough guts to ask a girl out. I mean, for goodness sake, that is about the most ridiculous thing. It would be one thing if I hadn't reassured him all week that I was interested in getting to know him more. So, with that, I'll take what little pride I have left and move on.
homeboy didn't even get a nickname, as he moved on so fast, ha.
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